What that EO actually did was to reclassify every US man as transgender - unintentionally I'm sure. I took a screenshot of it the day it came out in order to write a short piece and assuming it would be removed and at least reworded. There is a perfectly good biological argument (way better than those in the EO) to say that everyone 'at conception' is female. This opens up some interesting clashes on the nation's sports fields under this administration.
Incidentally, I'm fairly sure that the intention of anti-abortion laws is quite divorced from women's healthcare or the health and survival of mothers or babies. It is 100% to do with controlling women.
I'm sorry you've had to go through this. Thank you for finding it in you to write about it. These stories need to be heard.